Should I Go With Hadvar Or Ralof?

When It Makes Sense

• Good fit: You already know whether you prefer the Imperial or Stormcloak storyline, and you want the associated quest chain and companions from the start.
• Good fit: Your role‑play character aligns with the political or moral stance of one faction—e.g., a lawful Imperial soldier or a rebellious Nord rebel.

When You Should Avoid It

• Warning sign: You are undecided about faction allegiance and want to keep both options open for later in the game.
• Warning sign: You are playing a non‑canonical or experimental build (e.g., a pacifist or a character that avoids major faction conflicts) where early allegiance may limit role‑play freedom.

Pros and Cons

Pros

• Siding with Hadvar gives you immediate access to Imperial allies, early Imperial quests, and the chance to influence the war from the Empire’s perspective.
• Siding with Ralof grants you rapid entry into the Stormcloak cause, unique Nord‑centric dialogue, and early access to the rebellion’s rewards.

Cons

• Choosing one side locks you out of the opposing faction’s early quests and may affect how NPCs react to you later.
• Both choices commit you to a political stance that can limit certain role‑play narratives, such as playing a neutral wanderer.

Decision Checklist

• Do I have a clear preference for Imperial or Stormcloak ideology?
• Am I comfortable with the long‑term consequences of early faction alignment?
• Will my character’s story benefit more from one faction’s unique quests and companions?

Alternatives to Consider

If you are unsure, consider waiting until after the opening sequence to complete the “The Way of the Voice” quest, which allows you to join the College of Winterhold and pursue a more magical path independent of the civil war. Another low‑risk option is to play a “neutral” character who avoids major faction quests until later, giving you time to explore both sides before committing.

Final Recommendation

For players who have already decided on a faction or whose role‑play concept matches Imperial or Stormcloak values, picking the corresponding companion (Hadvar or Ralof) is the most coherent choice. If you value flexibility, enjoy exploring both storylines, or want to keep your options open, consider delaying the decision or using a neutral playstyle until later in the game. Remember that the choice is reversible through the civil war questline, but early decisions shape your initial experience.